But if you find that kind of, how do we work together? And that’s that’s how we see the whole world through that. We can make choices like I want a man whose blah, blah, blah and he has a good job. You kind of are marked like a lot of women say, I wish I was a lesbian because I think I get along better with women than men, you know? I have a feeling that some previous life I know this has not happened in this life. So you can check out our podcast creative mind living and will be simulcasting it there. spk_0: 14:21have a beautiful force that one shooter find that have that divine expression of masculine feminine connection, but it gets distorted. The way we are raised and nurtured in childhood, informs how we communicate and relate to others, throughout our lives. If you’re interested, even if you don’t want to be a coach, talk to me about the life coach training that starts in June. spk_1: 10:01were biological. Not not in the future, not in the past. It’s what what are re pushing away in the shadow, the actually, the attachment styles or the expression of the shadow of our ego. We think we know where patterns. And that is such a huge burden to put on someone else to say you are in charge of making me feel OK about myself and when we don’t like it when it’s put on us. And, um, I realized how it was like I had this moment of clarity of my pattern. And so you’re split amongst yourself. So this force obviously plays out in in our life in an incredible way. Uh, that’s really what that soul level love is. These archetypes are a tier in the level of consciousness, five being the most conscious. That somehow feeds the egos power like I’ve chosen this versus I want like looking weak like I want love, but no one wants me. Can really show us that Well said. spk_1: 6:44well. And so just to, uh, reiterate, it’s kind of like again that there’s these layers of us, you know, we think we’re so once you know, so simple. It’s pre born with you. Due to societal, parental and cultural conditioning, the Animus, or male element within the woman, can be often inhibited, restrained and suppressed. It’s not what they told you that it’s this kind of ah program. If you had a choice, if you could wave a magic wand and there be a wonderful, loving ideal person, would you say no to that? Uh, I’m not good enough. It’s not try to change the ego. We we were not focused on it. And so the best thing to do for a woman is to find a way to ground herself and connected and not, you know, kind of find a way to work with this force. We think we’re in control of our lives. Yeah, you will see, just like. You know, three lifetimes ago, I had that experience. spk_1: 22:46Yeah, and it’s it’s like you say It’s not about fixing or healing. Now you you may say, Well, I had a great relationship with the father. Stage 3: Female as Supportive Partner: He wants her to be caring loving wife who he provides for. It’s exactly where we need to not go toward the person, but go go inside ourselves and say, Wow, this person is kicking up a lot of energy at me. - Incompatible love languages or unawareness of differing personality types. I have nowhere to go. He moves through emotion when he’s upset when he’s, um, possessed, and so he’ll go for a run. And that’s really where the change happens. If you rewire the program, then all of a sudden you’re this perfect human being. Men are nurtured and raised to suppress their feminine side to a degree, while women are nurtured and raised to suppress their masculine side to a degree. It’s not gonna change. spk_0: 30:26So yeah, they talk with their buddies and the Lego Jimmy, that was a great time. Well, our natural state is both feminine and masculine. Jung’s animus theory postulates that, while women generally identify with their. The anima and the animus Of all these different and self-regulating systems, the anima/animus are the most important in terms of the ways in which we relate to the opposite sex. spk_1: 1:1:52yeah, but their But in that case, it’s possessing you. – Carl Jung, “The Syzygy: Anima and Animus,” Aion, CW 9ii, par. In a film interview, Jung was not clear if the anima/animus archetype was totally unconscious, calling it "a little bit conscious" and unconscious. Teoh remove that energy and women. And then we see the polar opposite where people are saying that I don’t I don’t wanna really I don’t need it. Thanks for hanging out with us. Nor that infatuation is We think the other person is divine and it’s a misperception, and we fall into that shiny little beautiful ah you know, image of that person and their their bright and wonderful and and then eventually they let us down there. It’s this deeper self and that’s really I mean, imagine that’s what we really want is we want to transcend our ourselves and become immortal, and we want to have that experience in our life, our own immortality. And we we’d see. And then the shadow is what is what is You know, what are we afraid of that we created that there’s attachment social, like a defense defending the ego. Are being too needy or, you know, putting too many demands on me when I was, you know, my whole thing just to kind of give a story is my mother. For a man, the opposite happens, since the man is that his opposite is the feminine principle that’s more emotional, so men actually become the nine year old mean girl and kind of a bratty, you know, they get they kind of become their emotions, start taking over their psyche. It’s It’s like an obsession. Oh, yeah, it’s You could still have an experience of it. And then also, this is going to be on our podcast as well. — Life Coach Training & Personal Transformation Experts. So yeah, beautiful. spk_0: 7:21so we were talking about what is the anima animus? And the things that we reject that we say, Oh, you know, that hurt my feelings or or they ignored me. What gifts it gave you. And we’re smart and all those things and not, you know, a lot of drama. So it just depends on you and where you’re at, um, for a daughter, OK, that if we had an absent father. Because go for the wrong person because there’s no chance for them to threaten you. Sharon Kay Julsonnet, B.A., Texas Tech University; M.A., Trinity University spk_1: 1:36right? You can’t transform the ego. I said, Grow up with, like, you said, that that distrust student up man or abandonment of the feeling of abandonment. We make the other person that container for all our you know, salvation. spk_0: 17:47It connects you to that something inside of you that so deep is like you could feel it. 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And ah, we we wanna look at it not in a masculine like male male characteristic, but more of a energy then and and, um and this force in us, If we don’t, we don’t do our shadow work. Well, let’s go to questions. Vs who you know, who you consciously really want. – Carl Jung, … I mean, I come from a drinking culture that those two Yeah, I was Well, that not not really. That’s the That’s where you say OK, there’s something here and ah, let me work with this feeling and a lot of times we don’t see it with people that were not attracted to. As with the projected anima, this can lead to unrealistic expectations and acrimony in relationships. They were so good at looking at these things for philosophically. He’ll show up in people you know, other people. It’s not. If you don’t do shadow work, you end up playing out those patterns. Before we know it, whether we processed our old relationship or not, we are back at the dating game again. spk_1: 30:16Right? Archetypes. But I feel this, like, urged to be with them. And we’ll see you next week. We’re going to talk about dreams. And you know this guy, you know, didn’t have any money, or this guy was too needy. - Psychological wounds and shadow. So, yes, send him my way. A woman has an inner animus, a masculine image that guides and shapes the way she relates both to men and the world at large. But But we have this desire for love that we can’t control. It’s simply that were. Push it away. Um and ah, there’s always shot of work to do. And a coach who knows step coaching could really help a client instead of like, Oh, yeah, he’s a jerk. But they’re really coming from deeper in the unconscious mind. And they. We don’t want to get rid of it. It’s like never had that experience before So we full really hard the first time. spk_0: 1:1:35You have to do shadow work in order to really see the animus But you can get a taste of it just by think of the times you fell for someone you started, you feel that like Like I love for someone in, You know, there’s first glimpses of even if it’s Lutece that, uh. Maybe it’ll play out that way, But if it’s starting it in 2030 years old, you know you start to individuated your your love life will play out differently. The best way to imagine the anima animus is to picture a yin-yang in your mind. 4 Levels of Animus Development. I met my maternal grandfather first. Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Um. It’s like What is that? But letting go of all that childhood, uh, attachment that we had, spk_0: 51:37someone with PTSD has fallen in love with me. spk_1: 44:51Well, if we drop the masculine feminine no, all we’re doing is relating to the other. He might want to do some sports. What can you give insight on that? spk_0: 33:41Yeah, a lot of Ah, you know, I’ve heard so many stories of men who have said I really you know, the woman scared him because he really had that strong feeling for her. We’re talking about the anima animus, spk_1: 0:26because we like to talk about Complicated. Below are the five levels of Anima and Animus in men and women. He identified four levels of animus development in a woman, as follows: 1) Man of mere physical power You know, we we reject the mothers, you know, stayed home, Mom, we become the professional or we reject the mother never being there for us. It’s right there for you. We could say it’s it’s really the Oregon with which we connect with each other besides the sexual. They they think that that is the totality of love. How to Work on Your Relationship. What I’m perceiving is showing me something about my mind, and it’s right there. Change ). As an extension of this, fundamental to Carl Jung’s analytical psychology was the theory of the anima and animus, the unconscious feminine side in men and the unconscious masculine side in women. Okay, do those anima animus. The Anima/Animus relates to our inner or soul life. spk_0: 5:10Well, that’s why people that talk about hormones and biology of love, and that’s sort of taking the magic in the and the spiritually mystical aspects of romantic love. Stage 4: Female as creative/ spiritual guides: She challenges him to find meaning/ love from a source other than a woman. In a marriage it is always the contained who projects this image upon the container, while the latter is only partially able to project his unconscious image upon his partner. We know what happened. The only reality is actually that now, because if you think well, I’m thinking about the past. We got some wonderful questions here. And we do this instinctually remembers Children. Heal the inner relationship and we heal the outer ones. spk_0: 26:58And there are some feminine aspects and archetypes in the unconscious, not just the animus, but the animus for a woman is a primary one. It’s the repository of creativity, of religious symbolism of ah, your passion for life. The animus and Anima are simply the unconscious masculine side of women and the unconscious feminine side of men, according to Carl Jung. It’s almost like the nagging woman or the, you know, the kind of crank we call it. And I know my all my ah, history and defenses and complexes. But when actuality, they held all the power. Debra Barone Maldonado and Dr Rob Maldonado, founders of Creative Mind Coaching. I mean, if they’re really being honest with themselves, is toe have that experience? It’s it’s the shadow. Like the anima, the animus is a jealous lover. Or they might be a theme of divorce. You know what’s the opposite? But yeah, we kind of you decide which one you are, and there’s four quadrants, and they’re based on the Colby’s attachment styles. The psyche relies on the relationship having an equal measure of heart and mind on contra sexuality to compensate for any natural one-sidedness. The first love is love at first sight. That’s cute. And then the 5th 1 was more real but still projecting onto him. Teoh. It’s like this force was like, Hold like, you know, there’s the Shadow was saying No, no, no. 2. Would there be a way to work with her animus? She regretted it in the end because it was in the wrong order. So any man that loved me and adored me, I was like, Red flag, I gotta go. And so, um like, I don’t know past lives and all those things. Keep your boundaries. Would there be a way to work with their animus or a woman? Or that might be a theme of Ah ah, infidelity. And it’s an animus possession. And we recommend it to everyone, and you have to do it with the coach. Every living thing wants to reproduce, and they leave its d n a. Light and shadow is built into our individual psyche, and it takes the form of whatever we’re expressing in our conscious life as male or female. Then you’re kind of missing the whole gift of that situation that’s showing you in reflecting. I love that. Let’s look and not from a fixing place but a self awareness and help the person see, like, kind of late, lift the veil of of ah, misperception and see what’s really there. Because nothing is independent of your mind that thes opportunities show up. It’s like a taste of yourself. spk_0: 1:13:30next Saturday. We’re focused on this little tiny little voice and trying to get it to behave when it’s never going to behave. Stage 2: Male as father God or King: She want’s his approval. Okay. spk_0: 37:42I would ask them to say, Are they making that decision based on fear? Change ), You are commenting using your Twitter account. I can’t sleep. We talked about that. It’s like this hard work. And so those play into think about it. We seek archetypes in our partner that will balance our suppressed masculine or feminine. spk_0: 37:31asked me a question. Yeah. You had. They become part of who you are, and they give you more energy. And then we ran and we feel like this force makes us fall in love with the people that are wrong for us in a way. Anima and animus in relationships depend on our ability to relate as whole human beings to other people and the world. And you look for a man who’s like If you adored your father, you know, you may look for a man just like him, but then the things of the opposite you may end up seeing in them, too, because there’s no one is no person has all perfect qualities and traits. Yeah, it’s this happened under shadow work. We love them. Anima and animus are both characterized by an extraordinary many-sidedness. Would be they would be the animus. spk_1: 59:28There might be that it depends on how it plays out, right? I had love of a soul level, which I lost something like a death of a beloved one and have never been able to find anyone like this. Ah, and you know, some weekends were just like beating ourselves up. And the only way to do that is to do your shadow work before you get into our relationship. We are often told that happiness and love resides within, but rarely do we find it. It has a, you know, kind of ah ah will of its own in a way. So when that force, it will connect you to someone who accepts all of you if you accept all of you, so it’s the external conflict is always reflecting the internal conflict. The more unified and simple this partner is, the less complete the projection. Go, go deeper to what is it? Animus, is the masculine part of a woman’s personality. But it’s the only worthwhile thing because nothing compares. The outcome need not always be negative, since the two are equally likely to fall in love. So you’re socially conditioned to be like a woman. The anima -- or animus -- becomes a “function of relationship” and a channel for intuition. And that real passion, of course, leads to, ah, bigger things like marriage or couple ing and and attachment and bonding. Ah, the other one is what is falling in love, meaning in the context of this force that drives us and compels us to to seek out strangers and become one with them in a in a sense, And then the other one is what are the spiritual dimensions of this anima animus work? We’re seeing the divine in the other person. The anima is the archetype that expresses the fact that men have a minority of feminine qualities; and the animus expresses the masculine qualities within women. spk_1: 18:34Yes, yes, unfortunately, like we were saying. The shadow work is about reclaiming those parts that we’ve divorced from ourselves, rejected, abandoned um, and reclaim them and integrate them into our self so he could become were whole, um, But then the next level after the shadow is this wonderful energy that’s inside of us, called the anima or animus. We say I I want to be, like, letting him or I You know, I don’t identify with that. What is the emotional template and that emotional template? This is where we do our work. by Dwan Dunning. I was just trying to edit it. And so then you’re just projecting your saying. And we analyze and a man he doesn’t put it into words. And it’s always like trying to, like, warn us of the past and. I’m gonna end up being a housewife with has no power. And it was all this power game, and it was all based on that template. spk_0: 13:32or Sarah Woman being the submissive one. It’s such a lie, our psyches alive. Your parents are the dynamic are reflecting how you in early conceive yourself. What archetype are you? Yes. You’re not coming from a deficit where I I lack something and I want to, spk_0: 46:52It’s a choice, and that’s really more power. Does that make sense? But keep repeating the same pattern. In this session, we’ll have a discussion about one of Jung’s concepts – Anima/Animus Archetypes that influence men and women in intimate relationships. Yeah, so we teach our coaches. You need someone to guide you because the ego will put. That that was the function of mythology and ritual was to give us the opportunity to do that. It’s a young, even had a hard time defining it, because it’s so we don’t have anything to really, um, kind of relate in a way relate to what it is because it’s beyond our conscious awareness. There’s an other person in in our consciousness and our awareness now and how we relate to that other person. And a lot of times, the shadow is not a direct like I have PTSD in my shadow, but there’s something similar, Like a fear. Yeah, and we’ve all been there is young people, you know, that we didn’t know what to do with the emotions and and the attraction that we felt for other people. spk_1: 1:3:46Yeah, and ultimately it’s It is your connection with the unconscious mind and and the unconscious in the young incense. It’s it’s complimentary room because it works like a battery, spk_0: 9:40were both feminine and masculine and even Ah, a lot of well went men, especially. Yeah, here we’re talking about more the psychological level, like, you know, what do we express in our conscious ah, living life, you know, in our in our social life and are being so often a man will express the masculine qualities of directness, of logic, of reason, of action taking, action, taking ah, the leadership role and the women or woman might express the the yielding force the receptive community, the building of community, the nurturing element. If we’re are not aware of, if we if we have it in the unconscious mind, then it’s projected out because that’s the tendency of our mind is we see that we see the world through that emotional template that is built up in our family life. Then at age one or two, I met my father and then that had a stepfather. Yeah, we’re going on rejected. It’s the same thing with the with their ego. So it’s so funny because we think we’re feminine and were women. We’re seeing an aspect of that animus, but it’s covered up with her shadow. So if the ideal guy knocked on the door, you would have to do anything you know, personal development, nothing. So we think that our mothers air being submissive. It’s just like this forces going. When the anima and animus come together, they create Syzygy, a term that represents the same kind of cohesive whole Plato described when the two halves of … I hope you participated in our three part series on the intro to young in depth coaching, and we talked about our coach training, and this is definitely something. Uh, let’s see that. We’re discovering new lands, new treasures in our in our psyche. It won’t get you there because it’s again. spk_0: 1:00theory organ. biological sex in the conscious ego, masculine qualities repressed due to cultural pressures and norms form a complementary contrasexual (male) personality in the unconscious. And so we have this force in this desire. What is the defense is that those projections have created. Post was not sent - check your email addresses! It’s, um, was asking about about this recording. But so a woman has an image of a man It’s called the animus a masculine image in her psyche. There’s a divine element where you feel that really beautiful feeling and then the you know, the heartbreak and all that other stuff covered over it that you’re seeing your animus and your shadow right there. And the other woman who’s rejecting it is sitting on that force. It’s it’s part of our journey is to to work with relationships. You know, not all, not the degrees. We’re gonna go through the inner Adam. Stage 3 Male and Stage 3 Female partnership is the most common and is the nuclear family model. So, yes, a weakening is really important. The Animus is the personification of all masculine psychological tendencies within a woman, the archetypal masculine symbolism within a woman's unconscious. spk_1: 1:2:10a relationship. “When animus and anima meet, the animus draws his sword of power and the anima ejects her poison of illusion and seduction. It opens up the door into that deeper process that we call a psyche. Okay, the guy at the door. "Marriage as a Psychological Relationship" (1925) In CW 17: ... ["Anima and Animus," CW 7, par. It’s going inside, working with the parts of yourself that you haven’t accepted. Get rid of the ego. So if you’ve ever been in a fight with a man and you’re trying a woman’s trying to talk it out cause women the mat animus is the logic. I rejected most of my stepfather’s persona and has been my shadow work for sure. Yeah. And But when I was younger, I had this teacher in sixth grade, Mrs Tabaro, See, And she would always talk about feminism and I would come home and I’d be like, Yeah, feminism And my father was like, Oh, no, he was like Archie Bunker and my mother was like, you know, the typical has stayed home, Mom and I used to think, Well, I don’t want to be that I don’t want to be trapped and not have, you know, be independent. They don’t want commitment. We still aren’t control. We have the four personas that women take on, and they’re based on the four feminine archetypes the mother, the lover, the professional and the mystic. We explain the power of these archetypes to take over your life and make romantic decisions where you feel powerless to the force of passion. And then, like I said, I saw this whole pattern and it was like instantly turned something in me because then I realized I was the one creating it, and until you take responsibility for your love life. And it’s kind of caught up in patterns of thinking and negativity. Welcome to the world that they were always creating shadow and And when we realize that, then we’re not thinking it’s hard work. And as an adult. And how do why There’s something here for me, especially if on a conscious level, you know, Yeah, they’re they’re kind of not, You know that, Not the right. Ship work is before you. And so I think a lot of people think transformation means let me fix this little voice in my head, and then then that will have a transformation. Any of these aspects of the animus can be projected onto a man. Absolutely. And so the surrender of the ego is where a lot of people get caught up right? Well, we were talking that in the context of that force, So that force propels us through these psychological mechanisms of flirty Innis and an attraction to experience something deeper. Yeah. The guy from Thor, You know, Hemsworth there and He’s gorgeous and he’s, you know, rich and loving and kind and everything you’ve ever wanted and or whatever it may be, good looking isn’t important to you and and And Would you push it away if he if the you knew that you wouldn’t get heartbroken? The outcome need not always be negative, since the two are equally likely to fall in love (a special instance of love at first sight). Hey, they’re looking for that father figure. The Divine Other – The Anima/Animus in Romantic Relationships, Your Unconscious in Life Coaching | Psychology of Life Coaching Part 1, How to Choose the Right Life Coach Training, Mary Shelley’s Frankenstein – Humans & the God Complex, Symbols of Transformation in the Lord of the Rings, The Dark Knight and the Joker – the Anti-hero Archetype, International Jungian Coaching Association, How your shadow influences your attraction to the opposite sex. Can this be possible? And it is only seizure is this little human being, and it’s being able to see yourself beyond the ego, and that’s really it. Specifically, the anima is thought to be the feminine part of a man’s soul, and the animus refers to the masculine part of a female’s soul. We haven’t understood what’s really going. So it wants to talk it out and we talk about it with our friends, and we’re like, Oh, and Jimmy, you know what he did and we’re rationalizing and your friends are all going, Yeah, you know, that’s it. Take care, Take care. We talked about this on our last podcast about the spiritual journey in love. Now, those other things we repress often because we don’t want to look at them or we think I don’t want any part of that, right? It’s just a projection of this unknown. And if you’re not sure, or your, um, non binary and all those, you have to discover what you have in your unconscious, which which side it would be. spk_0: 45:11Very question. spk_1: 57:15be in her life. Our surfer, superficial Selves is sitting on this amazing energy and that we don’t realize it. So a lot of times when we get rejected and relationships, it’s not that you were so terrible, But maybe you were so good that they were like, uh and so, uh, a person can only accept someone else in their life as much as they accept their self. Maybe that’s your third love, but it’s it’s It depends on each person, like we hate to put people in categories of like you’re going to go through a process like Elizabeth Kubler Ross. 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